Single Parent Strong Family. A Story of Resilience (English Edition)

Single Parent Strong Family opens with a promise: "I will love you. I will care for you, I will respect you, and I will support you. You will always be my priority." What follows is Kristina Farkas's own memoir of raising her son alone, introduced under a title that says everything about the honesty inside: "The Fate of Glass Is to Break!" As she writes, "The book unveils a long rollercoaster ride of emotional mountains, with moments of overwhelming euphoria and abyssal despair. Rather than being a mere guide or instruction manual, my book becomes a perspective on motherhood where you can see yourself reflected."

The story opens in 2001, in the chapter Decisions, under a quote from Elbert Hubbard: "Not much strength is required to do things, but it takes a lot of strength to decide what to do." Kristina describes a marriage unraveling in real time — "My dream prince was transforming into the gloomy Captain Hook" — right as she learns she's pregnant, caught between joy and the uncertainty of bringing a child into a marriage already shipwrecked. It's this kind of unfiltered honesty, not a curated highlight reel, that runs through the entire book.

From Decisions the story moves through Birth, The Liberation of Letting Go, and The Journey: Challenges and Rewards, followed by The Grandma: An Invaluable Support for My Lad — a chapter honoring the family support that carried her through the hardest stretches — and the practical realities of Changing Jobs and the deeply personal My Special Child.

The second half follows the slower work of rebuilding: Rebuilding My Life, My Family Is Your Family, and Mom, What Should I Say? give way to the more concrete milestones of New Flat and Moving Homes, while Sports I Dislike / Rewarding Their Efforts captures the small, ordinary frictions of raising a child solo. The book closes with Adolescence, Action and Consequences, and finally the long-awaited but bittersweet Mum, I Want to Live on My Own! — nineteen chapters in total, each one a real stretch of the road, not a lesson dressed up as a story.

As Kristina writes in the introduction: "A child should never be seen as a burden. We must say 'no' to victimhood, no matter how challenging the situation is." This isn't a parenting manual with rules to follow; it's a first-person account meant to make single parents feel seen, offering company more than advice — "Having a book that you can silently read, providing you relief or an invisible caress, is rewarding," as she puts it herself.

What makes this memoir different from a typical parenting book is the order of the chapters: it doesn't start with advice and illustrate it with anecdotes, it starts with the actual decisions and lets whatever wisdom exists emerge from having lived through them. The book has also become, somewhat unexpectedly, one that non-single-parents read to better understand a friend, sibling or family member raising a child alone.

I recommend this book for single parents looking for a story that reflects their own reality, for anyone supporting a single parent who wants to understand what the day-to-day really looks like, or for readers who simply appreciate an honest, unfiltered memoir about family and resilience.

Search for a memoir about single motherhood, a book for someone raising a child alone, or an honest account of rebuilding a life after a hard decision, and Single Parent Strong Family is written for exactly that reader — not a curated highlight reel, but the real, chapter-by-chapter account of what it actually took, including the parts most parenting books leave out. It pairs naturally with Points of View for readers who want to follow Kristina Farkas's writing from this personal memoir into her lighter, more observational essays on family and everyday life.

I'm Kristina Farkas, author of Single Parent Strong Family, and this English edition brings my own story — first published in Spanish as Mother of the Family — to readers who've asked for it in their own language.

If you're looking for an honest memoir about single parenthood, a book that makes single parents feel less alone, or a meaningful gift for someone raising a family on their own, this is exactly the kind of book you're looking for.

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